I cannot please anyoneeee

I feel very pulled apart, I need to be here for my family, be studying my butt off, and spend some quality time with my newly needy boyfriend ( I almost liked him better when he was aloof), and my roommate who likes to hang out with me. :) love them all but im tired of trying to please everyone and always caving into max because obviously I want to hang out with him even if it would be better for me to do something else